Introduction

So, about me. I'm a 21-year-old woman who loves life, has a fantastic boyfriend, and is a very sexual creature. The idea to make this blog occurred to me when I ran across a blog of sort's on Cosmo's website about a woman who is going through the entire Cosmo Kama Sutra, which has 77 positions in it, in just 77 days. Impressive. The blog has only been going for 11 days, but it's very interesting to read about what she thinks of the different positions, etc.

And while reading this, I decided that I would like to start a blog where I could freely talk about my sex life. Where I could discuss new tricks and techniques and tell what has worked for me. One thing that bothered me about this blog on Cosmopolitan.com is that the woman talks about how in several of her sexual encounters, she doesn't reach orgasm.

Ladies, this is NOT okay. I'm telling you right now, unless you have some rare problem where you can't reach orgasm without a vibrator or something like that, then your man better be getting you off. I've found one who provides me multiple orgasms 95% of the time we have sex. Every once in a rare while I only climax once. Now, this amazing man that I mention--that I know you all are thinking, Where can I find me one of those? about--he was the first guy I slept with. So at first I thought that I was just some strange nympho that got off extremely easily. But since I've become sexually active I've slept with two other men, and I realized that is not the case. I only orgasm multiple times if the man I'm sleeping with cares about my pleasure and is good at what he does. I'm very fortunate to have found this man at such a young age, and I plan on getting married to him someday because I know how hard it is to find someone like him. If you have not found a man who gives you the pleasure you so rightly deserve, then do yourself a favor and find one. Relationships are not all about sex, but it certainly makes things more fun if you have good chemistry and you are able to give and get pleasure from your partner.

Anyway, as I've said, my guy is great in the sack. No complaints on my end. And I know that I please him. However, since he always does so much to make sure that I am satisfied in bed, I've decided that I want to start doing some stuff to become even more of a sex goddess for him. He deserves a woman who's arsenal is fully loaded with tricks, ideas, and positions to blow his mind. So, the first thing I'm doing is I'm going to take a three-course teleconference by Sierra Bender entitled "Goddess in the Bedroom." Perfect! If anyone else is interested in taking this course you can learn more and sign up at http://airwavespresents.webs.com/goddessinthebedroom.htm. It states that in one of the sessions it will talk about how to take the boredom out of the bedroom. My boyfriend and I have been together for a little over three years now (off and on), and although I am always pleased with the sex we have, it's true that it has gotten a little monotonous, as I think it does for all couples if they're not careful. So that's one of the things I'm looking to remedy. I'll be sharing my experiences with any useful information I learn from the conference.