The Art of the Tease

I loooove to be teased.  I think almost all women do.  Sometimes, the anticipation of the pleasure to come is just as delicious as the actual pleasure.  It also makes it so I'm not just ready for the main event, I'm begging for it.

But as much as women love teasing in their sex life, I think men like it just as much.  It's not always recommended in sex articles that we tease men mercilessly, but I've found it extremely helpful in getting mine to really want me.  'Cause after a while sex can become a little routine, you know?  We kiss, fondle, go at it, "That was great, babe," and it's done.  It's way too easy for him.  So sometimes, I like to mix it up.  I'll kiss J., get him all aroused and ready to go, but then act like maybe I don't want to do anything (but eventually f*ck him silly, of course).  Or just taunt him for a very long time without actually doing all the stuff he most wants me to. 

The other night I didn't really feel like having sex because I was so tired, but I was in the mood to make out.  Small tangent: does everybody still make out with their partners even after being together for awhile?  'Cause I do.  I love it.  It's just something that's so fun to do especially if your partner is an amazing kisser, and a lot of times once couples start having sex they just kiss for 30 seconds and move on to other things.  So have a 15-minute makeout session today.  I promise it'll lift your mood.  Anyway.  J. got all aroused and I decided that I would just go down on him but that I would make him wait a while first.  So I kissed him and teased him and did all the things that I know drive him crazy for about 20 minutes before finally giving him oral.  And you know how long it took to get him off once I started?  About 90 seconds.  Which is crazy fast for him.  Usually I'm down there for at least five minutes.  And he said it was amazing.  It just goes to show that teasing is super effective in prepping both men and women for fantastic orgasms.  So if your man is not big on foreplay usually, maybe focus it a little more on him the next time, tease him a lot, make sure he's begging to be inside you, and see if he changes his mind.  You can also do this with foreplay all day long, like sending him naughty text messages, calling him to tell him how much you want him, or stopping by on his lunch break in something terribly sexy.  He'll be thinking about you all day long.