Back to Solo

Well, I decided to stop sleeping with T.  It was nice at first, but then he just didn't seem that interested anymore, and I'm not going to fuck a guy who doesn't realize that it's a privilege to be able to sleep with me.  Now we're just friends.  As a result, I am going into withdrawal.  It's only been four days so far, but I don't know when I'll be able to have sex again because I don't have any other prospects.  It really is my drug, my way to feel good and de-stress when everything is crazy (like work, which sucks all the time lately).

On the other hand, I am getting slightly better at masturbating.  I've done it the past couple of nights, using a small vibrating toy, and it at least gives me some release.  It is still no substitute for the real thing, but I have to make due with that right now, I suppose.  The one thing I can't seem to do is make some big deal out of it...like, in the books and articles that I've read about solo sex and how it can be this great thing, they often advise women to take their time, maybe even set up the room like how you would for normal sex, just do all this kind of elaborate stuff.  And I can't seem to do that.  It just seems silly to do all that work for just me.  I like doing it when there's a man involved, but when all I'm doing is looking for a small release, then I just get it done as quickly as possible.  So tell me, do you guys do anything "special" for your solo sessions?  If so, does it make them better?